Danger #14: panic of being exposed
A narcissist whom begins to develop a sense that she may be found out - becomes ever more afraid, ever more extreme, volatile, and unpredictable, and ultimately ever more dangerous1; dangerous to children, to the co-parent, and to anyone supporting the man who has been her primary target for the past fifteen years.
She knows how unpopular she is, and her actions, accusations, and communications are not simply dealt out of greed and selfishness, but out of panic; in the way that all illigitimate narcissistic hoarders of custody and purveyors of parental alienation behave toward the inevitable end of their reign of abuse.
Footnotes
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Dr. Ramani, on being found out ↩